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Best Date Night in San Francisco

Find the best date night restaurants in San Francisco, CA. Scored on what actually matters.

By DineSpin Team·Updated February 2026·10 spots

San Francisco date nights carry a particular tax: you're competing with stunning views, tech money, and restaurants that know their worth. The places below aren't cheap, but they're either so technically skilled or so genuinely warm (or both) that they justify the premium. A few lean on vibe alone—which works if the vibe actually delivers.

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1.

The Richmond

95/100

A tasting menu from an owner-chef who's been doing this for 12+ years and treats every table like they're dining at his house. Four hours, $40–$70 per person, and regulars call it the best value in the city because the food is genuinely excellent and the wine pairings are thoughtful. John does the cooking and the serving himself. It's small—fewer than 10 tables—so you'll need a reservation and patience. But every visit is just as good as the last.

Pro tip: Inner Richmond parking is brutal. Take an Uber or arrive at 5:30 when street spots are still available. This is a 3–4 hour commitment, not a quick date.

🍽️Food98

The food is consistently described as outstanding, delicious, and thoughtfully prepared, with many diners highlighting the tasting menu and wine pairings.

Absolute perfection!

👋Service95

Service is well-regarded as attentive, personal, warm, and first-rate, often noting the owner-chef's direct involvement.

The service was attentive and caring.

Vibe96

The atmosphere is repeatedly described as cozy, intimate, private, romantic, and unpretentious, often enhanced by the small number of tables.

Cozy and intimate dinner

💰Value92

Diners consistently find the prix fixe menus and wine pairings to be an top-notch deal for the quality and experience offered.

Very reasonable price.

📍 615 Balboa St, San Francisco, CA 94118, United States
4.8$$San FranciscoAmerican
Ideal for
Romantic dinnersAnniversary celebrationsIntimate dining experiences
2.

SHOWA Le Gourmet Tonkatsu

95/100

SHOWA Le Gourmet Tonkatsu offers an excellent and highly memorable tasting menu experience, blending innovative Japanese cuisine with warm, personal hospitality. Well-regarded for the creative dishes, beautiful presentation, and the intimate, transportive atmosphere.

Pro tip: One of THE BEST dining experiences we’ve ever had in the world

🍽️Food98

The tasting menu offers a creative and unique experience, with dishes that are consistently described as delicious, innovative, and beautifully presented, highlighting fresh ingredients and expert preparation.

One of THE BEST dining experiences

👋Service95

Service is frequently lauded as outstanding, warm, and attentive, with owners Joe and Chef Koji often singled out for their personal touch and hospitality.

Incredible service, decor, plating

Vibe95

The ambiance is well-regarded for its thoughtful, modern Japanese decor, creating an intimate and transportive atmosphere.

Felt like I was transported to Tokyo

💰Value85

While a prix fixe menu in San Francisco, the value is considered first-rate for the quality, creativity, and overall experience provided.

Not unreasonably priced for a prix fixe

📍 1550 Howard St, San Francisco, CA 94103, United States
4.9$$$$San FranciscoJapanese
Ideal for
Special occasions — intimate and celebratoryFood enthusiasts — seeking creative and high-quality Japanese cuisineDiners valuing personal service — owners are highly engaged
3.

L'Ardoise Bistro

92/100

L'Ardoise Bistro is a highly-regarded neighborhood French restaurant in San Francisco, celebrated for its authentic Parisian ambiance, excellent food, and attentive service. It's a popular choice for romantic dinners and special occasions, though some find it a bit pricey for the portion sizes.

Pro tip: Authentic French bistro with amazing food, cozy atmosphere, and outstanding service.

🍽️Food95

The food is well-regarded for its authentic French flavors, with many dishes highlighted as first-rate, particularly the duck confit, rack of lamb, and escargot. Ingredients are noted as fresh and of high quality.

Food was amazing

👋Service90

Service is frequently described as attentive, friendly, and top-notch, contributing to an authentic French bistro experience. Staff are noted for their charm and knowledge.

Service was top-notch

Vibe95

The atmosphere is consistently lauded as cozy, intimate, romantic, and authentically Parisian, making it a popular choice for special occasions and dates.

Amazing ambience

💰Value75

While many find the food and experience worth the price, a few diners noted it felt overpriced for the portion sizes, especially for San Francisco.

Felt pretty overpriced

📍 151 Noe St, San Francisco, CA 94114, United States
4.7$$$San FranciscoFrench
Ideal for
Romantic datesSpecial occasionsExperiencing authentic French cuisine
4.

Brucato L Restaurant and Distillery

92/100

The amaro cocktails are the reason to come, and they're genuinely excellent—house-made, never saccharine. The Italian small plates are skillfully executed and the design feels like a micro Italian vacation. Small portions, premium pricing, and you'll end up ordering multiple dishes because the first round wasn't quite enough to feel full. It works if you accept that this is about the experience, not volume.

Pro tip: The house bread and lamb meatball are must-tries. Go for drinks and let them suggest food rather than ordering blind from the menu.

🍽️Food90

The food is well-regarded for its deliciousness, with many dishes highlighted as outstanding, particularly the house bread and lamb meatballs. Ingredients are noted as fresh and preparation shows care.

Each plate was better than the last

👋Service85

Service is frequently described as friendly, helpful, and over-the-top. Staff members like Miriam and Leila are specifically mentioned for their first-rate service and mixology skills.

Great service from miriam

Vibe95

The atmosphere is consistently lauded as beautiful, stylish, and immaculate, with a great soundtrack and intimate dining room creating a unique ambiance.

The vibes were immaculate

💰Value75

While the food and drinks are well-regarded, some diners note that portion sizes are smaller than expected and the price point can be a splurge.

Portions are smaller than I expected

📍 275 S Van Ness Ave, San Francisco, CA 94103, United States
4.9$$$San FranciscoAmerican
Ideal for
Date nightsCelebrating special occasionsExploring craft spirits
5.

Harris' Restaurant

92/100

Harris' Restaurant is a highly regarded, classic San Francisco steakhouse known for its excellent dry-aged steaks, impeccable service, and sophisticated, old-school ambiance. While pricey, it consistently delivers a memorable dining experience, making it a top choice for special occasions and steak aficionados.

Pro tip: Outstanding food and service in a classic, elegant steakhouse atmosphere.

🍽️Food90

The food, particularly the steaks, is well-regarded for its quality, preparation, and flavor, with many diners highlighting dry-aged options and specific cuts like the ribeye and prime rib.

The meat was dry aged and tender

👋Service95

Service is frequently described as first-rate, attentive, professional, and friendly, with specific staff members often recognized for making occasions memorable.

Service was phenomenal

Vibe95

The restaurant offers a classic, elegant, and sophisticated old-school steakhouse atmosphere, often enhanced by live jazz music.

Great old-fashioned ambiance and feels very plush

💰Value70

While the quality is highly regarded, several diners note the high prices, with some finding the cost not fully justified by the portion size or overall experience.

I thought it was overpriced

📍 2100 Van Ness Ave, San Francisco, CA 94109, United States
4.7$$$$San FranciscoSteakhouse
Ideal for
Special occasions and celebrationsSteak connoisseursClassic steakhouse experience seekers
6.

La Traviata

92/100

La Traviata is a beloved, long-standing Italian restaurant in San Francisco known for its authentic, high-quality food, intimate and romantic old-world ambiance, and remarkably warm, family-like service. It is well-regarded for its delicious classic dishes and reasonable value, making it a cherished favorite.

Pro tip: A stellar experience -- no exaggeration whatsoever.

🍽️Food95

The food is well-regarded for its authentic, high-quality Italian flavors, with many dishes like gnocchi, tortellini, and lasagna highlighted as excellent.

Incredible and authentic italian food!

👋Service90

Service is frequently described as friendly, attentive, professional, and hospitable, with staff often making diners feel like family.

Attentive, professional, wonderful service.

Vibe95

The atmosphere is consistently lauded as cozy, romantic, intimate, and charming, with an old-world Italian ambiance enhanced by opera music and decor.

Cozy, low lighting, very romantic.

💰Value85

Diners generally find the prices to be reasonable and the portions generous for the quality of food and dining experience.

Great Italian food that is cheap

📍 2854 Mission St, San Francisco, CA 94110, United States
4.6$$San FranciscoItalian
Ideal for
Romantic datesIntimate dinnersCelebrating special occasions
7.

Mezze and Mooore II

92/100

Mezze and Mooore II is well-regarded for its authentic and flavorful Lebanese cuisine, vibrant ambiance, and generous portions. While service is generally good, occasional delays and minor order issues have been noted.

Pro tip: Every single aspect of this place is EXCELLENT, Outstanding, First-rate!

🍽️Food95

The food is well-regarded for its authentic Lebanese flavors, inventive dishes, and high-quality, fresh ingredients. Many diners consider it among the best they've had.

Every single dish served is a 10/10

👋Service75

Service is generally described as friendly, warm, and attentive, though a few instances of slow or inattentive service, and one case of a wrong order, have been noted.

Great service, beautiful on the

Vibe95

The ambiance is consistently highlighted as a major strength, with descriptions of a romantic, cozy, vibrant, and beautifully decorated interior.

Loved the ambience and the service

💰Value90

Diners find the portions generous and the prices reasonable, offering good value for the quality and quantity of food.

Good price for sit down

📍 627 Irving St, San Francisco, CA 94122, United States
4.7$$San FranciscoMediterranean
Ideal for
Authentic Lebanese food loversDiners seeking a vibrant atmosphereCasual dates and gatherings
8.

Da Flora

92/100

Handmade pasta executed at a level that justifies the price, served in a room that actually feels like Tuscany. The owners—Jen in the kitchen, Darrin managing the floor—have been running this for 14 years and they remember regulars. One diner called it simply "hands down one of the best meals; warmth and hospitality unforgettable." The catch: it's not for casual budget dining, and if you're vegetarian, don't expect flexibility. Small space, small portions, big flavors.

Pro tip: Call weeks ahead if it's a Friday or Saturday. Chef won't customize meat out of pasta dishes—know what you're ordering.

🍽️Food95

The food is well-regarded for its excellent quality, fresh ingredients, and delicious flavors, with many dishes highlighted as standouts.

Everything was incredible

👋Service90

Service is frequently described as friendly, attentive, and warm, with staff often treating guests like family.

Service was very friendly and attentive

Vibe95

The restaurant is consistently lauded for its cozy, intimate, romantic, and charming atmosphere, often compared to being in Italy.

Setting was cost and intimate

💰Value75

While the food quality is highly regarded, some diners note that portions can be small and prices are on the higher side for the area.

Far too expensive for what it is

📍 701 Columbus Ave, San Francisco, CA 94133, United States
4.7$$$San FranciscoItalian
Ideal for
Romantic dinnersSpecial occasionsIntimate gatherings
9.

Poesia

88/100

Poesia offers an authentic Italian dining experience in San Francisco, celebrated for its charming ambiance and high-quality, handmade pastas. While most diners celebrate the food and service, some find the value proposition questionable and occasional waits can be lengthy.

Pro tip: Amazing Italian food, beautiful scenery, and superb service!

🍽️Food88

The food is generally known for its authentic Italian flavors, fresh ingredients, and well-executed handmade pastas, though some dishes have been noted as overly rich or not special enough.

Amazing Italian food

👋Service80

Service is frequently described as friendly, polite, and professional, with staff being accommodating and attentive, though there are isolated reports of slow service and order mix-ups.

Service provided to us was amazing

Vibe95

The restaurant is consistently lauded for its charming, cozy, romantic, and artsy atmosphere, often compared to being in Italy.

Ambiance is amazing!

💰Value65

While many find the food quality high, some diners feel the prices are steep for the portion sizes or for certain dishes.

Pretty pricy for what it is

📍 4072 18th St, San Francisco, CA 94114, United States
4.5$$$San FranciscoItalian
Ideal for
Date nights — intimate and romantic ambianceSpecial occasions — high-quality food and serviceItalian food enthusiasts — authentic flavors
10.

Via Aurelia

88/100

Via Aurelia offers a spectacular and elegant dining experience in San Francisco, lauded for its excellent food, creative cocktails, and beautiful ambiance. While service is largely celebrated, diners should be prepared for high prices and potential wait times.

Pro tip: Spectacular dining experience with gorgeous decor and attentive service, though pricey.

🍽️Food95

The food is well-regarded for its outstanding quality, thoughtful preparation, and vibrant flavors, with many dishes described as spectacular.

Nothing short of spectacular

👋Service90

Service is frequently highlighted as attentive, warm, friendly, and professional, making diners feel special, though one instance of rudeness was noted.

Great service and great food

Vibe95

The restaurant's ambiance, decor, and atmosphere are consistently described as gorgeous, elegant, warm, and inviting, creating a special dining experience.

Space feels like a work of art

💰Value65

While the food and experience are highly regarded, several diners noted that the restaurant is very expensive, with some finding it overpriced for the portion sizes or overall offering.

Heavily overpriced

📍 300 Toni Stone Xing Suite A, San Francisco, CA 94158, United States
4.5$$$$San FranciscoItalian
Ideal for
Special occasions — elegant ambiance and first-rate foodDate nights — romantic atmosphere and refined diningCocktail enthusiasts — creative and well-paired drinks

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